切忌曖昧不明,拒絕時要果斷

容易自律神經失調者,往往過度在意別人的眼光,無法拒絕被委託的事情,但事後卻懊悔不已。
其實,這也是造成身心壓力的一大來源。
如果真的有困難,就應該說清楚自己的狀況,果斷地拒絕對方,切忌曖昧不明。
當然,這時一定要說明拒絕的理由,並跟對方傳達「雖想幫忙但力有未逮」的心情與歉意。
比方A說:「這個星期天可不可以陪我去購物?」
B如果有困難,可以回答:「很抱歉,當天有客人要來,無法出門……」。
萬一不方便直接說明理由,不妨來個「善意的謊言」。
import CheckoutIntents from 'checkout-intents';
const client = new CheckoutIntents({
apiKey: "RYE/staging-ec7a06d0ba5647ee824a",
});
// Step 1: Create checkout intent + poll until awaiting confirmation
const intent = await client.checkoutIntents.createAndPoll({
productUrl: "https://flybyjing.com/collections/shop/products/the-big-boi",
quantity: 1,
buyer: {
firstName: "John",
lastName: "Doe",
email: "john.doe@example.com",
phone: "212-333-2121",
address1: "123 Main St",
city: "New York",
province: "NY",
postalCode: "10001",
country: "US",
},
});
// Step 2: Review offer details (price, shipping, taxes)
console.log("Offer:", intent.offer);
// Step 3: Confirm with payment + poll until completed
const completedIntent = await client.checkoutIntents.confirmAndPoll(intent.id, {
paymentMethod: {
type: "stripe_token",
stripeToken: "tok_visa",
},
});
// Step 4: Handle result
if (completedIntent.state === "completed") {
console.log("Order placed successfully!", completedIntent);
} else if (completedIntent.state === "failed") {
console.error("Order failed:", completedIntent.failureReason);
}
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